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[Music] Unlike physical abuse, being emotionally abused
doesn't leave you with visible scars or bruises that can be easy to detect. In the U.S., every ten seconds, a report of
child abuse is made. That means on a yearly basis, this involves
more than 6.6 million children who are affected. Emotional abuse weakens the individual's emotional
development and sense of self-worth that can have lifelong damaging effects. Here are 10 signs of emotional abuse from
parents. One; you experience random emotional outbursts. Do you tear up easily or find it hard to control
your emotions? When the child grows up in an environment
where they were constantly reprimanded or had their emotional needs neglected, they're
more likely to experience their emotions in extremes. This makes it difficult to achieve self-composure. They may demonstrate high spirits when they
get validation from others, but hit rock-bottom at the snap of a finger when they aren't getting
the attention or support they crave. Two; you are overly affectionate to strangers… or you're super kind to people you haven't
known for a long time.
People who never received unconditional love
from their parents will try to make up for the cruelty they grew up with by nurturing
others instead. They never want someone else to experience
the same trauma as they did, so practicing empathy comes naturally to them. Three; you are aggressive toward others and
animals. On the contrary, some children with emotionally
abusive parents connect hostile toward their classmates and treat animals poorly. As a result of internalizing the abuse, they
may imitate their parents harsh treatment and lash out on others. Victims of emotional abuse always felt things
were out of their control, so they try to make up for it by doing the opposite, being
the emotional abusers themselves. Four; you have little to no friends. Do you isolate yourself from others or feel
painfully shy around new faces? Children who are emotionally abused will often
lack the proper social skills they need to form connections. Consequently, they may either find themselves
in toxic relationships often mistaking them for normal ones or avoid commitment altogether
in fear of getting hurt again.
Five; you aren't confident about your future. Victims of emotional abuse often grew up with
parents who criticized and belittled them and dismissed their feelings. As a result, they're likely to grow up being
pessimistic. This can prevent them from going after their
dreams as they run away from their true potential. Six; you constantly repress your emotions. Parents who emotionally abuse their kids do
not create a safe space where it made them feel OK to cry. Instead, their kids might have grown up in
fear, afraid of doing something that would upset or anger their parents. Consequently, like brave little soldiers,
at a young age, they learned to bottle up their feelings for survival. It's no big deal they might say, and may grow
up resorting to drugs and alcohol as a poor coping mechanism.
Seven; you don't know who you are. Do you struggle with establishing a strong
identity or often feel like you're stuck in limbo? If you grew up with parents who are controlling
and emotionally manipulative, they've raised you to be codependent. As a result, you never had full control over
your own life and in shaping your own identity. Eight; you often seek validation from others. Victims of emotional abuse usually lack self-confidence.
In order to make up for those feelings of
worthlessness, they may take great measures such as people-pleasing in order to feel loved
and appreciated, whether it means putting on a facade on social media or making up white
lies just to stay on someone's good side. This can cause them to struggle with authenticity. Nine; you're highly self-critical. Did your parents put a lot of pressure on
you as a child? When you are expected to reach high unrealistic
expectations, you may not feel like you're good enough if you aren't always working yourself
to the bone.
You may also end up becoming a perfectionist
and not allow yourself to be human. Ten; you experience a lot of guilt. Children with emotionally abusive parents
can grow up with guilt issues. When they try to establish boundaries and
seek emotional support from others, their parents may guilt trip them into isolating
themselves; "Oh, looks like you've forgotten about me…" or "don't you love me?" are phrases
to watch out for.
Were you a victim of emotional abuse or
know someone who was? We encourage our community members to be vulnerable. Tell your story
today. If you'd like to make a difference, be sure
to share this video as well to spread awareness. Thanks for watching!.
